The contests in old town got me writing. Before joining, I had maybe two stories completed and needed some kind of structure to get my head around what to do next. I entered a lot of them and ended up with a few stories that I still like and still gather rejections. Entering was daunting initially, but the anonymity and voting gave a sense of what hit and what didn't without the inclination to not cause offence that can be prevalent in workshop, which is also a valuable portion of the forum. I won a couple and scored zero on others. Some of the ones that fared poorly are the ones I stand by. Go figure.
The contests are a core element of what keeps me coming here. They are competitive and sometimes the standard is exceptional, but run with good humour and acknowledgement that the results aren't all that important in the grand scheme and certainly not more important than participation, support and encouragement. They are also an opportunity to try out different things, bend it up a bit without spending years on a novel that no-one understands. I also like the short story format, even if some of mine don't qualify as stories.
I find it confusing, sometimes frustrating, that the voting pages didn't get a lot of response, though that has improved significantly in the new forum. I've said all that before and won't repeat here.
Particularly for someone starting out, trying different things, managing structure, show and tell, hide and tell, build momentum and all the other stuff that goes into writing a story, the contest give ample opportunity to get it going.
I've disqualified myself as the owner
Nonsense! Get involved. Mod contributions to contests and workshop tend to raise the standard. That's not a bad thing. Ye often draw a crowd. And that's not a bad thing neither.
3. I get overly competitive. This is a big one. This one is the hardest. I get so competitive and I am HONESTLY a sore loser. And it's hard. For me, it's not, 'oh, I'll grow as a writer by doing this', I struggle with comparison and the need to be the best.
Like with magazine rejections, the trick is to lay blame squarely on the readers...
More seriously, the slowest snail race in history that comprises the voting page allows you all the time you need to get over yourself. As far as content is concerned, dark and twisted might not score with everyone, but you might be surprised by tolerance levels. You could check a few scenes with mods to get a fuller sense of how close you are to the limit.