My main contribution can be summed up as "Ask questions when you need answers." Had I actually talked to my agent and publisher instead of being politely reticent for fear of bothering someone, the first six months after publication wouldn't have been so anxiety-ridden.
My debut novel was trade published. The number of human hours and amount of money invested in producing and advertising a single novel is staggering. I worried that the book wouldn't even pay out the advance, much less make money for the publisher who'd taken such a risk. Four or five months after publication, I hesitantly asked the communications director if she knew how Book I was doing. She told me it was the publishing company's third best selling historical novel, then said, "Hasn't anyone talked to you about this?" Well, no, but I hadn't asked because I thought someone would tell me what I needed to know.
Contribution#2: be prepared to talk to groups of people. If the idea gives you butterflies in the tummy, start practicing now in order to conquer your fear. Share in writers group, Bible study, or AA. Take a publc speaking course at the local community college. Ask willing acquaintances to listen to short practice presentations after explaining you don't want feedback on the presentation, just the experience of standing in front of an audience. Seriously: speaking in public is part of the deal, so deal with it.
Contribution #3: learn to say no. You don't have to speak to every Rotary Club or retirees group that asks you. You don't have to speak pro bono at writers conferences that charge big bucks to attend. You don't have to give everyone who asks a free copy of your book. You don't have to give your agent's name to anyone. You don't have to read someone's manuscript. Say no politely, but say it firmly. My fallback phrase is, "I'm sorry, but I can't do that." If someone presses to know why I can't accommodate their request, I say, "It's simply not possible,"and change the subject.
Huh. I'm thinking I should turn this into a topic for a writers convention presentation. See how the whole process can mess with your head?
