Lovely topic, Louanne,
Sorry for the quotes people.
This all requires going right inside the characters’ heads.
Yeah, and having my characters haunt would be good, too.
I think that mostly requires connecting on an emotional level.
I read somewhere that there are 3 levels to creating meaningful characters.
1. Characters based from people you know.
2. Characters are who you think should sound like.
3. Characters who tell you what to write.
I thought about this a lot because it is natural to base dialogue or a personality on someone you know but I began to realise that characters who make the greatest impact are the characters who are 'alive.'
What I mean by this is that it goes back to the a well-known piece of advice that great stories are if you throw someone into this situation what would they do? And that is the question with characters too. Throw them into a situation and what would they do? And say? I could imagine what a friend would say if I threw them into a situation, but that's them and not the character (I will explain more.) If I think about how they should react in that situation, it is closer to a real character, but throwing a character into the situation, the character will tell me what they would do, because as a writer you have to
know your character.
Your character is not a version of your friend because I don't expect your friend to have lived the same life as your character but thinking what they would say is not delving into your character deeper enough. When a character tells you what to write; when they pause, or stutter or show their frustration and anger... how you write these words comes from their core and is built up by their experience growing up. Yes their anger maybe similar to a friend, but all our angers are comes from a different place. So I'm not sure if going to an emotional level is quite enough, it is building a rich history of the character that will give the most genuine of feel to the reader.
I want people to care about them. I want them to wonder if they survived. Or where they're at and what they're doing later on.
I think that is the goal every writer should aspire to. If a writer can form a connection between a character and the reader, it doesn't really matter about the storyline. I saw this one video on YouTube, in which the person said that people connect with the character more than a story. It is memorable characters that leave lasting impressions ... and I think this is very true.
And yes, Haunted is a good word. I would love that.
Does scary dreams count?

I've been working a lot on my stories lately that has been centered around one character, and this character keeps talking to me when I sleep... she is quite annoying.
My only thought towards characterizations and growth and such is authenticity.
That is... a great word to describe a character.
I dont write my characters with the intention of making my reader feel or think certain things about them and the story. I just write them and let them grow how they are supposed to. Ultimately, its up to the reader to assign whatever purpose or meaning they want to the character.
Completely agree! This ties with the silliness I wrote above in that, I feel, a reader can connect with a character (good or bad) if they are authentic and their progression is consistent to their beliefs. I always find it slightly worrying when a timid character suddenly becomes so confident and assured of themselves after meeting another character who 'changes' their lives. It is very Hollywood and this 'overcoming' adversity that creates a completely changed person isn't very real. It may make a happy story and good feel, but in regards to the title of this thread and whether a character carries any impact for a reader later on... I don't think so.